|“Tell everyone you know: “My happiness depends on
me, so you’re off the hook.” And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no
matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And
before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the
way you feel - and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason
you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not
- Esther Hicks (via cosmofilius)
An important step to make this a true statement is to really Forgive and Forget. To stop trying to find fault, and instead to look for a solution based on Love.