Why do we come back to the same old questions, over and over?
Because we haven’t really clean our “room”. We’ve kept some old boxes that are meant to be put away, we’ve spread everywhere little pieces of paper with small and big wishes, we’ve been holding on to the same old interior décor, but it’s always time to give a new look to things. We need to transform, to blossom, instead of keeping ourselves uncomfortably numb as if we were keeping ourselves inside a rose bud.
But will it ever stop being necessary to change? I think we’ll have less and less things to change around us, but inside ourselves there’s always room to change until we get to the inner most peaceful and joyful state of being, perpetually. So...
“Be gentle and patient with yourself as you untangle your own mental knots. Get help if you need it. Above all Love yourself in the process. The willingness to let go of the old is the key. That is the secret.”
Don’t let your aliveness slowly disappear... Refrain for some time from just going along everyone else’s plans, refrain from TV, from virtual reality. Give time for yourself. get to know yourself, start “dating” yourself. This way you’ll have the space to sprout. You’ll find your gracious and courageous way. I believe that after this things start falling into to the right place.
The show of course still goes on, Life does not wait for you, so be prepared to be challenged, but keep a conscious attitude towards it. Ask yourself, when in doubt: Does this behavior/decision/person help me move forward, or block my progress?
Envision where you want to be in 3 months. Visualize how you look, how you feel inside, how others perceive you. Aim at your best, beyond coolest. Aim high!