The things that are hard for you right now, are the things that are teaching you and leading you towards a better version of yourself.
That’s why we can have thoughts of Love and Gratitude towards the things, people or situations that we think are bad and so wish to change. They are actually helping us! You see, change comes from the desire of getting away from what is hurting us. Change comes from feeling uncomfortable with who we are. If it wasn’t for someone irritating you, you would just stay the same old same. Why bother to evolve and expand?
So think about what is going on that you wish to end, and then think about what you can change in yourself to put a break on it. That’s how we evolve...
Stop thinking about how you can change your boss, your colleagues, your spouse, your family. They won’t change just because of your effort to change them. It’s a bit arrogant to think that you know best about someone else’s life. Change starts with your own self. Simple and raw. Instead of looking out for reasons for your sadness and Monday blues, have a good, deep and honest look towards yourself. What is it that you’re missing? What can you do to gain an honest, loving and lasting smile on your face?