“Have you ever wanted to ask a question but you didn’t because you knew in your heart that you wouldn’t be able to handle the answer?”
... be brave and be truly honest with yourself. Nobody else has anything to do it with it. It's your Life, your choices, your own lessons, mistakes. It's your Life, no one else. You're the one who's breathing and feeling it all. You're the one who has to handle those doubts, fears and insecurities. It's your Life.
But, there's one thing you should care about that it isn't about you.
Respect others, their doubts and choices.
It's their Life.