Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Why it's hard to leave Portugal behind...

Job crisis, strikes, criminal politicians, poor social support, very poor health support, not so much "fiesta" as in Spain where you can meet your friends everyday (here you have to ask them "common! just one beer..."), BUT then you have this, and this is something you really miss...

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

SRI LANKA - Hand shaped island

Exactly as its shape, Sri Lanka is a whole hand of richness in nature and heart-felted people. Nature is lush and varies a lot from the West part, to the Hill country, changing again in the East Coast. The same happens with the people who live in those areas.

The West is more business oriented and the rhythm is faster than anywhere else in the island. The East is chilled, is honest trust and "pay me later". It's the sun and the ocean in everyone's eyes. The Hill Country is the greenest green, and is far (with all the winding roads, 100km can take you 3 hours to do by car). Covered with tea plantations, here is where you most feel the British dominant influence. Colonial houses, hierarchies and too much tourist exploitation (for example, as a tourist you will always pay 5 times more than any local. Proof? The entrance for the famous Ancient City Sygiria costs 50 Rupies to locals, and 3700 (=30$) for tourists)

The surf is great! Warm water, nice waves (a bit too crowded) and welcoming surf locals. I rented a surfboard which costs around 7€ a day, but, don't expect to get a nice cool balanced board. Most boards are like decomposed corpses. Old, sun yellowed, easily breakable... but, I'm kind of glad I didn't bring mine. Dinging a board is for sure on the menu.

Sri Lanka is a great approach to Asia, for it's manageable, friendly and safe. No vaccines required, mosquitos will surround you and bite you more than once, but nothing crazy. Citronella is the key to keep them away! The people are appreciative of what they have, and most definitely you can sense their gratitude towards having survived the 2005 Tsunami (30.000 people died, many lost all they had), and gratitude for having finally peace after the Tamil Tigers civil war, that ended in 2009.

There are many interesting things to do. For me the best were surfing and climbing up Adam's Peak.

Adam's Peak is a mountain (2300 meters high, 5000 steps, 7km up, two and half hours non-stop climbing up, 2 hours climbing down) that is known for being sacred (like most of nature is for them*), and people climb it during the night to watch the sunrise on the peak. That sunrise is to be felt as a miracle for the new day, the new opportunity to do it right, the perfect time to ask god for some enlightenment. Really special : ) But be prepared, your legs will hurt for at least 4 days. People will notice you've done it ; )

The other special moment is too watch again the sunrise, but standing on your surfboard, in blue warm waters, with big turtles surfacing to catch their breath and diving in again. A-wait for it- mazing!

Here the pictures of the big adventure! Thank you!

*We asked to one of our drivers: Was anyone ever killed because of a coconut falling in their head, there are so many... Answer: Oh! Never! The palm tree is a sacred tree, it gives everything a man needs, from it's roots to the leaf! Palm oil, fabric, wood... 

THE LINK
https://picasaweb.google.com/117393919168397587361/SRILANKAAPR12?authuser=0&feat=directlink 


Thursday, April 19, 2012

Soul & body

 It's very important to take care of yourself... here's how you do it ; )

Monday, April 16, 2012

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Music is my Lover...




"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"
- Hillary Cooper

"Keep your face to the sunshine and you will never see the shadow" 
- Helen Keller


PRECISAMOS TER AMANTES

"PRECISAMOS TER AMANTES" 
- Dr. Jorge Bucay (Psicólogo)

" (...) Muitas pessoas têm um amante e outras gostariam de ter um. Há também as que não têm, e as que tinham e perderam. Geralmente são essas últimas as que vêm ao meu consultório para me contar que estão tristes ou que apresentam sintomas típicos de insônia, apatia, pessimismo, crises de choro ou as mais diversas dores. (...)
 

AMANTE é "aquilo que nos apaixona". É o que toma conta do nosso pensamento antes de pegarmos no sono e é também aquilo que, às vezes, nos impede de dormir. 

O nosso AMANTE é aquilo que nos mantém distraídos em relação ao que acontece à nossa volta.

É o que nos mostra o sentido e a motivação da vida.

Às vezes encontramos o nosso "AMANTE" no nosso parceiro, outras, em alguém que não é nosso parceiro mas que nos desperta as maiores paixões e sensações indescritíveis. 

Também podemos encontrá-lo na pesquisa científica ou na literatura, na música, na política, no desporto, no trabalho, na necessidade de transcender espiritualmente, na boa mesa, no estudo ou no prazer obsessivo do passatempo predileto... 

Enfim, é "alguém" ou "algo" que nos faz "namorar a vida" e nos afasta do triste destino de "ir levando". E o que é "ir levando"?

Ir levando é ter medo de viver.

É o vigiar a forma como os outros vivem, é o se deixar dominar pela pressão, perambular por consultórios médicos, tomar remédios multicoloridos, afastar-se do que é gratificante, observar decepcionado cada ruga nova que o espelho mostra, é aborrecer-se com o calor ou com o frio, com a humidade, com o sol ou com a chuva. 

Ir levando é adiar a possibilidade de desfrutar o hoje, fingindo contentar-se com a incerta e frágil ilusão de que talvez possamos realizar algo amanhã.

Por favor, não se contente com "ir levando". Procure um amante, seja também um amante e um protagonista ... DA SUA VIDA! 

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

"Wisdom is knowing I am nothing,
Love is knowing I am everything.
And between the two my life moves.

And while you're living , stay as close to LOVE as you can."

- Wayne Dyer

We can do the impossible... but we gotta stay balanced